How do I know if someone is crossing my boundaries?
A boundary may be crossed when something doesn’t feel right. This can include feeling uncomfortable, pressured, confused, or upset—even if it’s hard to explain why. Boundary crossing isn’t always obvious, but it can include unwanted touching, repeated teasing, someone ignoring that you said “no”, or being asked to keep secrets about something that makes you […]
Do I have to report if my child tells me something?
Parents are generally not mandated reporters, but teachers and school staff often are. It is okay to ask professionals upfront what they are required to report and what stays confidential.
Is it okay to say no even if I said yes before?
Yes, you are always allowed to change your mind and decide you no longer want to do something.
What should I do immediately if sextortion happens?
Stay calm and avoid blame. Save evidence such as screenshots. Do not engage or pay. Block and report the account. Reach out for help and make a report. Additional resources are available to help support you and your child through this: Make a report to NCMEC’s CyberTipline at report.cybertip.org Stop Sextortion: Tips for Caregivers Amaze […]
Can I say no to hugs or physical touch from family members?
Yes. Everyone has the right to decide what kinds of physical touch feel okay for them, including with family members or people we love. Saying no to a hug or other physical touch is allowed and does not mean that you are being rude or unkind. There are many other ways to show care and […]
If my child sent an image, are they at fault?
No. A child who was pressured, manipulated, or threatened is not to blame. Focus on protection and support, not punishment.
What does consent actually mean?
Consent means freely choosing to say yes or no. It must be clear and given without pressure, fear, manipulation, obligation, or an imbalance of power. Consent is not silence, freezing, or going along to avoid conflict. Those are signs that someone may not feel safe or comfortable. Consent can change at any time, and anyone […]
Can images be removed once they are shared?
Law enforcement and tools can help remove images involving minors or prevent them from being shared further. You do not need to upload the image publicly to get help.
What if someone pressures me into saying yes?
Consent is not present if someone pressures, pushes, or makes a person feel guilty, afraid, or worn down for saying no. A real yes is given freely, without fear, pressure, manipulation, or consequences. If saying yes feels like the only way to make someone stop asking, avoid conflict, or prevent something bad from happening, a […]
What if I feel unsure instead of a clear yes or no?
Feeling unsure is important information. Consent is not about uncertainty or hesitation—it should feel clear and comfortable. If you feel unsure, confused, or conflicted, that is a sign to pause or say no. It is okay to take time, ask questions, or decide not to move forward at all.