Why is it illegal for minors to send intimate images, even of themselves?
There is always risk associated with these types of images, so the law is very strict. However, law enforcement is not likely to arrest a minor for sending an intimate image of themselves.
How do I manage my own fear or anger so I don’t scare my child?
This is one of the hardest parts of parenting in this space. Your fear makes sense. But when fear shows up as panic, lectures, or worst-case scenarios, children often stop talking. If you feel flooded, it’s okay to pause. You can say, “I’m feeling a lot because I care about you. I want to take […]
Additional resources to help kids and families stay safer online
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How do I talk to my child about respecting others’ boundaries and consent without making them afraid of being accused?
This is a very real fear for parents, especially of boys. The key is to teach clarity and care, not fear. Focus on what respectful behavior actually looks like. Consent is a clear, enthusiastic yes that can change at any time. Uncertainty means pause. Pressure means stop. Alcohol, fear, or power differences mean consent isn’t […]
What should my child do if someone sends them an explicit photo?
Thank them for coming to you and trusting you with this information. If the photo is of a peer and there are no concerns about harassment of your child, they should delete it right away. You or the two of you together can report this to their school so they can make sure it gets […]
How do I know if my child is healing or just hiding distress after something unsafe happened?
Healing rarely looks like a straight line. Some children seem fine at first and struggle later. Others show distress immediately and then stabilize. Pay attention to patterns over time. Changes in sleep, mood, school engagement, irritability, withdrawal, or anxiety that persist are signals to slow down and offer more support. You don’t need to wait […]
Can men and boys experience sexual assault?
Yes, anyone can experience sexual assault regardless of gender. The Rowan Center serves all people, regardless of gender.
What if therapy isn’t accessible or my child doesn’t want it?
Healing does not require perfect access. Trusted adults, school counselors, consistent routines, and supportive relationships all matter. If your child resists therapy, respect that and revisit later. Choice restores control, which is essential after harm.
What should I tell my child to do if a doctor, nurse, or school staff member makes them uncomfortable?
Thank your child for telling you and affirm that they did the right thing by listening to their feelings and telling a trusted adult. You can ask them open-ended questions like: “Can you tell me more?” or, if appropriate, “What would help you feel more comfortable?” Decide how you are going to proceed. In some […]
How do I rebuild my child’s confidence and sense of safety?
Confidence returns when children feel believed, supported, and empowered. Give them choices where you can. Ask what feels helpful. Let them see that mistakes or harm do not define them. Your steady presence over time is more powerful than any single intervention.