Should I have a lawyer?
Legal advice can be helpful in some situations, but it is not required to access support. Advocates can help explain when legal guidance might be useful.
Do I need insurance or identification to receive counseling services?
No. Lack of insurance or identification should never be a barrier to care. The Rowan Center provides free and confidential counseling.
Do I have to disclose my incident in detail to receive services?
No. You control what you share. Services do not require full disclosure or retelling details.
Can I get crisis counseling and still see my regular therapist?
Yes. Crisis counseling can complement ongoing therapy and provide additional support during acute periods.
Do I have to attend individual counseling sessions to participate in support groups?
No. There is no requirement to be in individual counseling in order to participate in a support group, and there is no requirement to join a support group in order to receive individual counseling. At The Rowan Center, the goal is for people to receive the kind of support that feels right for them, in […]
How can I tell if something is sexual assault if I’m not sure?
Uncertainty is common. Sexual assault includes any sexual activity that occurs without free, informed consent. Confusion, pressure, fear, or inability to say no are important indicators. You don’t need certainty to seek help.
Can I call the helpline for anything, or does it need to be a crisis?
You can call the helpline for anything. It does not need to be a crisis. Many people reach out simply because they’re looking for information — to understand what services The Rowan Center provides, to learn what support options exist, or to figure out whether a concern fits with available resources. Others call because they […]
What should I do if something happens to my daughter at college? Should she report? What is the best way to report? Should I contact campus police or local police? What happens to the perpetrator?
Reporting is always a choice. Your daughter can start by speaking with a confidential advocate to understand her options without committing to anything. Colleges, campus police, and local police serve different roles. Campus reporting may address school-based protections, while local police handle criminal investigations. She does not have to decide right away. The most important […]
What should I do if I find porn on my child’s phone?
Pause before reacting. Many children encounter sexual content unintentionally through algorithms, pop-ups, or peer sharing. Start with curiosity, not punishment. Ask what they saw, how it made them feel, and whether they had questions. Use the moment to talk about realism, consent, and boundaries, and then address safety settings and supervision calmly.
Can the police do anything if someone in another country is sextorting my child?
Yes. While international cases are more complex, reporting still matters. Police reports help trigger platform intervention and coordinated responses. Support services and image-removal tools are available regardless of where the perpetrator is located.