This is a very real fear for parents, especially of boys. The key is to teach clarity and care, not fear.
Focus on what respectful behavior actually looks like. Consent is a clear, enthusiastic yes that can change at any time. Uncertainty means pause. Pressure means stop. Alcohol, fear, or power differences mean consent isn’t possible.
When kids understand consent as an active responsibility rather than a trap, they are less likely to cross lines. Silence and shame increase risk. Clear expectations reduce it.