Manipulation often doesn’t look dramatic. It sounds like flattery, guilt, persistence, or “everyone else is doing it.” Children are especially vulnerable to pressure when it’s wrapped in attention or affection.
You can help by teaching your child to notice patterns rather than single moments. Encourage them to pay attention to how they feel after interactions. Feeling drained, uneasy, confused, or pressured to keep secrets are important signals. Let them know that pressure, even without threats, is a reason to pause and talk to an adult.