What if I’m scared to report something?
Even if you feel scared, if someone or something is making you feel uncomfortable or is hurting you, it is important to tell a trusted adult so they can help you.
What if an adult like a doctor, teacher, or coach makes my child uncomfortable?
Children are often taught to defer to authority, even when something feels wrong. Explicit permission to speak up is protective. You can say, “Even with adults in charge, you’re allowed to ask questions, say stop, or ask for another adult to be present. If something feels off, I want you to tell me.” Reinforce that […]
What if the person I need to report is a family member?
When the person who makes a child feel uncomfortable or unsafe is a family member, the situation can feel especially confusing and scary. Children may feel torn between loyalty, love, and fear, or worry about getting someone in trouble or breaking the family apart. Even in these situations, it is still important for your child […]
Does my child have to be alone with a doctor?
Not always. A parent, nurse, or another adult can often be present. You or your child can ask for this.
What if I get in trouble after reporting something?
Sometimes an adult might not know how to keep you safe, and punish you, even though you were trying to get help. This is not okay for them to do! If this happens, you may have to tell another trusted adult, even if that seems really hard.
What if my child is afraid of getting in trouble for reporting an adult at school?
Children are allowed to report adults. Schools are required to take reports seriously and protect students from retaliation.
What if I waited a long time to tell someone? Does it still matter?
Yes. No matter how long ago something happened, it still matters, and you can always tell someone.. Taking time to speak up is normal.. You might have needed time to understand what happened, manage your emotions, or feel safe enough to speak up. Waiting does not mean the experience was less serious or less real.
What protections do students have at school?
Students have the right to learn in a safe, respectful environment free from sexual harassment and sexual violence. Schools are legally required to respond to concerns, investigate reports, and take steps to stop harmful behavior. This includes protecting students from retaliation and providing appropriate support and accommodations during and after a report is made.
What are personal boundaries?
Personal boundaries are the limits we set around our bodies, feelings, and personal space. They help us feel safe, respected, and comfortable. Everyone’s boundaries are different, and they can change depending on the situation or how someone is feeling. Learning about boundaries helps us understand what feels okay for us and how to communicate those […]
What is Title IX?
Title IX is a federal law that protects students from sex-based discrimination, including sexual harassment and sexual violence, in schools and educational programs. Under Title IX, schools are required to respond to reports, offer support and accommodations to affected students, and take steps to stop harmful behavior. Families and students have the right to ask […]